
If you are considering your first child and you already have your first “baby” in your home, have you stopped to consider what you should do before you bring home your “second child”?
You can help you pet cope with this new little person in their environment much the same way that parents help siblings understand that a new member of the family will soon taking up permanent residence.
New babies take a lot of time and, if your pet is accustomed to spending the better part of the day and night with you, it would be wise to begin to wean them off of you gently, but distinctly. Training them to stay in one part of the house, on their own, in a nice new kennel or pet bed, is extremely helpful in the long run. It saves on scolding, ignoring, isolating and stressing out your pet when the time comes that you can’t spend every waking moment devoted to them.
If you were planning on spaying or neutering your pet anyway, better to have it done before your child arrives. According to The Humane Society of the U.S., “not only do sterilized pets typically have fewer health problems associated with their reproductive systems, but they are also calmer and less likely to bite.”
If you have friends or family members with small babies or children, you might consider letting your pet spend time with them in your home, monitoring the situation with quiet, gentle authority. Even carrying around a doll, wrapped in a blanket, can help your pet adjust to the idea of someone else needing your attention. Address any training or behavior problems well before your child arrives. Put up a baby gate to the nursery if you intend on keeping your pet out of your child’s room.
Before you bring your baby home, get a family member to bring home an item of clothing or a receiving blanket with the baby’s scent on it and let your pet investigate and get used to this new scent. Reward your pet for quiet, proper behavior when they’re near the baby and make sure all interactions, for the first little while, are supervised.
Have you brought a new baby home to your pet? What was your pet’s reaction? Did you do anything to prepare your pet for the new baby?

